Kim Kardashian Details 'Big Burden' of Co-Parenting Kanye West

Kim Kardashian is opening up about the emotional weight of co-parenting with her ex-husband, Kanye West. In the new biography Citizen Kim, the reality star described her constant worry for the rapper’s well-being as a "big burden," according to E! News ^[1].

The 46-year-old explained that her concern for West never fades, noting, "That’s the father of my kids, I’ll never not worry about him," in the book written by journalist Jonathan Van Meter ^[1]. The biography, which hit shelves Tuesday, October 27, details their nearly decade-long dynamic from 2018 to 2026, per Us Weekly ^[2].

To manage this delicate balance, Kardashian revealed she keeps direct contact with West minimal. She communicates primarily through his wife, Bianca Censori, or his manager, as reported by E! News ^[1]. This strategy has allowed for smooth co-parenting, with the two families even spending Christmas together after Kardashian included Censori in holiday plans.

Kardashian also reflected on the public nature of their split and West’s bipolar diagnosis, which he initially received in 2016 ^[2]. She admitted to "sweeping it away, under the carpet" during traumatic moments to protect him from public scrutiny, according to Us Weekly. However, she acknowledged that when his health issues affected her own safety and mental health, she had to prioritize saving herself.

Despite the challenges, Kardashian emphasized that West was a calming presence for their four children: North, Saint, Chicago, and Psalm ^[2]. She noted that during his episodes, the kids would remain unaware, allowing the household to maintain normalcy, as detailed by Us Weekly.

The reality star shared a specific anecdote about West’s influence on her style early in their relationship. She recalled being dressed in Givenchy and Tom Ford for a Lakers game, only to return home to find her beloved shoe collection nearly gone, replaced by racks of designer clothes from brands like Lanvin, according to Us Weekly ^[2].

Kardashian expressed hope for West’s future, stating, "I really just want him to win, I want him to shine," while admitting sadness over his public struggles ^[2]. She encouraged an open-door policy for West’s family to visit, ensuring their children maintain a strong connection with their father.